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WHAT MATTERS MOST
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> > All relationships are put to the fire. There is no
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> > such thing as a constantly happy couple. There is no
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> > such thing as a constantly happy relationship. All of
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> > us, at one point in our affairs will have to go
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> > through a cleansing process which, hopefully, will
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> > make us better persons.
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> > Let us always remember that our relationships are put
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> > to the test to make stronger and better persons out of
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> > us. Second to love, the next most important ingredient
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> > of a successful relationship is communication. Many
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> > would agree that there are certain things in a
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> > relationship that are better kept unsaid. But I don't
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> > believe in that. The moment we lie about our feelings
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> > or the wrong that we have done, we begin to build a
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> > wall of bricks around ourselves. Everytime we hide
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> > something out of fear, we add a brick to that wall.
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> > Soon we will be total strangers to the very people we
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> > vowed to be with the rest of our lives. We will start
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> > to hurt inside until we can no longer bear the pain.
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> > Until we regretfully give up the very relationships
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> > that we wanted to keep.
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> > Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship. If
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> > we cannot bravely express our innermost fears, doubts,
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> > and insecurities to the people we love then our ties
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> > are doomed to fail sooner or later. I would rather be
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> > hurt by a person who is honest than be hurt in by
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> > someone who betrayed my trust. Many couples suffer in
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> > silence because they are afraid that opening up would
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> > just make things worst. They keep their feelings to
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> > themselves until their affection towards each other
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> > diminishes to the point where separation becomes inevitable.
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> > Remember, there is no burden so heavy that it cannot
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> > be lightened by an open, honest and peaceful exchange
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> > of thoughts and feelings. Fights are inevitable.
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> > Oftentimes, we hurt those we love because we insist on
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> > protecting our own feelings. Selfishness is a poison
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> > that recklessly kills relationships. It is only when
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> > we set aside our pride, arrogance and anger that we
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> > are able to deal with raging emotions sensibly and
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> > peacefully. There would be a lot of times when we
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> > would be tempted to think only of the things that
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> > would make us happy. Most of the time, the happiness
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> > we get from satisfying our own want is happiness that
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> > we deprive others of. Our joy is their pain and our
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> > rise is their fall.
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> > Some relationships survived one of the most difficult
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> > trials. They owe it to God who has watched over them
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> > all throughout the most trying times of their lives.
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> > They understood because they listened to what each of
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> > them were trying to say. They realized what was going
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> > on because they talked about their feelings. They hurt
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> > each other badly because they both became selfish. But
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> > the pain felt was washed away by the fact that love,
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> > among all the feelings that they shared, still
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> > remained the strongest pillar with which they have
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> > built their relationship upon.
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> > Indeed, beautiful things will always be built of the
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> > foundations of pain. We are strengthened by adversity
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> > and seasoned by trials in our relationships. It is not
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> > how much pain we feel that matters. What matters is
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> > that we are able find a space in our hearts to forgive
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> > those who have hurt us. It is not how hard we have
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> > stumbled that matters. What matters is that we muster
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> > enough courage to stand on our feet and try again. It
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> > doesn't matter if we have found love and lost it.
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> > What matters more is the joy that feeling brought us.
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> > What matters most is that we loved at all.





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